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My waist finally looks like how it did before I had kids but I didn’t lose weight. Why am I still 15 lbs from my starting weight?

Last Updated: 26.06.2025 14:58

My waist finally looks like how it did before I had kids but I didn’t lose weight. Why am I still 15 lbs from my starting weight?

Maybe you had implants installed, or maybe you gained cupsizes from lactation.

Otherwise, it is also possible you gained brain mass from understanding children which is respectable too.

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If your children have to take formula or drink too much water at the water fountain, maybe your husband should be grateful anyway though your children have a right to complain and as parents you should do what you can to make sure your children are developing functioning brains and personalities. If you’re trying to do evil slight of hand I think it’s easier on girls though there’s no reason to send any boys through transition just because their parents have a thing for boobs.

My honest guess:

I’m wondering about attachment and transference with the therapist and the idea of escape and fantasy? How much do you think your strong feelings, constant thoughts, desires to be with your therapist are a way to escape from your present life? I wonder if the transference serves another purpose than to show us our wounds and/or past experiences, but is a present coping strategy for managing what we don’t want to face (even if unconsciously) in the present—-current relationships, life circumstances, etc. Can anyone relate to this concept of escape in relation to their therapy relationship? How does this play out for you?

If your breasts provide milk without hurting or poisoning your children your husband should be thankful.